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THE WAY SHE SAVED MY LIFE !

So,today I am going to talk about something which is not really fashion related,but I believe it is a key point in my evolution as a gentleman so I have to share it with you.


Today I am a very happy person,as I have a very special girl to love me. To be loved by someone means to have a reason to become the best version of yourself.

So let’s go back to my school ages. When I was like 13 or 14 years old I was what teenagers would call a nerd. Besides that, I was kinda fat and my style was very bad,I mean like super bad, the hair,the clothes,everything. Anyway,one day I see a cute blonde girl and I just fell in love with her. She knew that I liked her,but she didn’t said anything. I bought her flowers and even wrote a song for her.
And one day she says that she wants to talk to me. I was already super excited and thought about kissing her. Anyway,she comes to me and she says
                                                                                         “Alex... f*cking leave me alone”

And that was the moment I felt that the world is over for me.

I was complexed by the way I looked and by the way people bullied me,so I wanted to end it.
Yes,the first way of ending it was suicide and I thought about it and almost done it, but then it hit me “It was not my fault,it is not my fault that I am a human being and that I suffer,it is perfectly normal”.

So I get back to school and prepare for my final exam,without talking to any of my “friends” because I just wanted to get rid of them,because of their bad influence.

The year ends and I go to highschool. Here I thought that I could restart my life and be the person that I always wanted to be,without trying to impress anyone. But,as you may think,it was not like that... Again,I fell in love with another blonde girl (the irony),but after a while in friendzone I stopped trying.

It was 28 December I was laying in bed. I entered Facebook and just scrolled down the timeline. Anyway,I was looking at the chat menu on the right and I saw a pretty face, which seemed familiar,maybe because she goes to the same highschool as me. So I text her a dumb message,like “Merry Christmas, sorry for the message” and she answered me,making a joke about Internet Explorer,you get the point. We talked a little and then I just stop replying.

After 2 month, in February, I replied to her question. And surprisingly she answered. Not only she answered but we talked for a whole weekend without stopping.
Now,we are together for 2 years and 7 months...



But how did she made me a better man ? Because she was the best girl I have ever seen in my whole life,so I wanted to become the best version of myself. And I started dressing better and acting better,trying to become the gentleman she deserves.

Now,I can say that I am what I am because of her and that’s the reason I am writing this blog,not only to give advice on fashion or manners,but to make every man a better one, in all the ways possible. 

That’s why I love to write and that’s why I am trying to help anyone in need. I’ve almost killed myself for caring  to much about others opinion and for thinking that I am a nothing.

      Be yourself without trying to change for anyone !
     If you are a real person,then you will be surrounded by real persons !



Thank you very much for your time !

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